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Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Wpzimmer — Sun, 25 Mar 2012 03:52:55 -0000

I am well past the dating age range, but I can remember years ago when I first got out of the Army. The Army had made me very open minded concerning race. For those who have never been in the Army, even in the late 60's and the 70's the Army was one of the most open race relations organizations in the world. After a while, one (At least I did) would get to the point where he just didn't notice or care about a persons race. In Vietnam we really cared for each other. When I came home I went to work and met a Black Lady that to this day still owns a piece of my heart and mind. I ask her out several times but she always refused. Since She seemed to like and care about me I finally pushed to try to find out why she would not go out with me. She told me that Her Family was completely against things like that and she could not do anything which would hurt her parents. I understood and pretty much gave up. I did ask her if I could speak to her Dad about it, but she said she would rather I didn't. I finally was able to discuss it with her father and he was very nice but made it clear that He was totally against it. I also found out from him that she had discussed it with him many times seeking his approval. He just felt that everything was better off with whites loving whites and blacks loving blacks. It really broke my heart and I never married. After a number of years I lost touch with her and I don't know if she ever married of not. I still think of her every day.

Re: OkCupid Claims Racism Is Alive And Well!

LadyScientist — Sat, 24 Mar 2012 17:19:58 -0000

The key word in the referenced question is prefer. Just because you prefer to be with someone of your own race does not make you a racist, nor does it imply that you solely date within your race. Coming from a scientists perspective you are lacking definitive evidence to draw that conclusion or support your claim.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Joylowe2012 — Wed, 07 Dec 2011 07:50:03 -0000

yes i like u can we be friend

Re: OkCupid Claims Racism Is Alive And Well!

Madison — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 16:55:58 -0000

Hey Amber try Afroromance.com

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Dating — Mon, 31 Oct 2011 02:58:27 -0000

I think this post is not about showing racism. A person is a person. Be more focused on his/her inside than to just fall for or reject him/her for outter deceptions.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

JamesChance — Thu, 08 Sep 2011 12:29:27 -0000

I see nothing wrong with it. I met my wife on www.swirldates.com. She is Italian and I am Black. I say whatever floats your boat!!!

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Glowtex — Mon, 22 Aug 2011 20:32:18 -0000

This is a direct attempt to trick black women into choices other than black men to reduce the reproduction of african american in this country the old divide in conquer . This isn't new, smart african American understand that their is strength in numbers .

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Blackdiamond1955 — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 11:34:15 -0000

Well DoubleD Trouble - you certainly have set yourself up for a lot of pleasuring by white men...and just what did you mean by a little pain? LOL

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Blackdiamond1955 — Wed, 10 Aug 2011 11:31:14 -0000

I believe white men like the erotic excitement of dating a black woman - then reality sets in.

Re: OkCupid Claims Racism Is Alive And Well!

Ronin312 — Mon, 16 May 2011 19:45:50 -0000

white people are RACIST enough said

Re: White Men Dating Black Women

Mecca — Thu, 12 May 2011 10:11:58 -0000

I definitely agree with you. In synopsis a beautiful woman of any race or backround can get any handsome man of any race or backround as well. I am tall and people find me very attractive and tell me all the time you should model. So I do now. I don't go out of my way to get men to notice me. I dress sexy, work-out, eat healthy, do yoga, and read books. Women need to focus on themselves before bringing a man into it. I can care less if one man out of a million doesn't think that I am beautiful. He's the minority in that equation. The whole the with the wide nose and big forehead is too extreme, its either you're very attractive or you're not. Just exude confidence WOMEN, give back to the world. Be successful! Men will flock to you. Loving a man for the color of his skin isn't loving at all. Love the MAN, but you have to LOVE ALL OF YOU FIRST! So get active, join different things, be one with God, embrace the Earth. You only live once. I thank God for the mother I have and I'm only 19 and I realize these things.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

BJ — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 11:15:00 -0000

Well you like black sex which is far more dangerous than the other normal sex that we are used to.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

BJ — Sun, 27 Mar 2011 11:11:57 -0000

Some of your information is true in the beginning with the white men for guilty pleasure and the black woman marrying him for status in the whtie society. Take for an example, I know of a black Jamaican women who felt confotable in dating and marrying a white man after 7 months but found that her being married to him was for her own selfish intentions and now benefiting from a hosue that she would not been able to buy on her own without the help of the white mans finances. She is now living in the house that he intially bought from a whirlwind 7 month dating and 6 years of marraige where 2 of it was separation and the other 4 years of making the white husbands life a living hell. Now she is living in that house with her new young cub blackl husband doing the dirty sex deeds in the same bed that she did with her white husband.. No wonder white men do not trust these types of black women who marry for their own agenda and then end up hating the black race. Especially the black educated Carribean women. This lowlife is now everywhere on the internet making a name for herself. Donna M Meade is her name. A black woman who used her cuban's father to obtain free college education in the US and marrying four times which were all whirlwind marriages.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Eightwellhung — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 13:50:40 -0000

i am a white middle aged man, i have never dated or had sex with a black woman. Its not that i dont think they are hot, because some makes me hard just seeing them with cloths on, and most sexy white girls think their pussy is made of gold. If i would meet a black woman that i thought was hott and she and i clicked and she would let me bang her, i would be more than willing to sink my white shaft in her

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

faiyh — Fri, 25 Feb 2011 03:48:40 -0000

I am an attractive black woman with big breasts. Actually I'm SUPER HOT!!! I normaly wouldn't say that because saying you're hot isn't hot. Anyway, you say you'll make me happy forever, but won't take me any further then the bed room. You seem very confident in your post. I highly doubt you would have the same attitude in person.

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

DoubleDTrouble — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 15:28:51 -0000

i have dds big pretty eyes and lips that the perfect shape of cupids bow. im a capricorn and like to cause just a little pain while i pleasure

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Naughty Dating South Africa — Fri, 21 Jan 2011 04:49:56 -0000

I would definitely date a girl of any race if I really like her, no problems on this....

Re: White Men Dating Black Women

Lalaceyloves — Thu, 04 Nov 2010 17:31:29 -0000

I have mixed feelings about the comments ,that are here on this page. First; I must say all the honestly about the feelings expressed is great! Only when honesty is openly express can there be understanding.,but may I ask a question ? With all theses comments on physical looks, have we forgotten that even when the outside looks,which changes with the passing of time. The inside person
the person within,changes little,if at all. My point being; the real differences between people is things like: up-bringing,social status, religious beliefs, exposure to the many races of people, and
how one feels about themselfs.

To give you some background about myself, I'm a black lady....well,carmel color (smile) consider quite attractive .I have small femmine face features , but I'm a woman of color. What I think about interacial dating is GREAT ! I date white men, not because their white,but because I seem-to have more in common with them. Like: music taste,personality, goals, and conmuication skills. I just want to say, "can we talk more about real things than just looks?"

KEEPING IT REAL (smile)

Re: Are Black Women More Desirable Outside Of The United States?

Mikko Kemppe — Tue, 02 Nov 2010 18:43:48 -0000

Good points Viajera!!

Re: Are Black Women More Desirable Outside Of The United States?

Viajera — Sat, 30 Oct 2010 09:52:27 -0000

I certainly agree with you. As to the "climbing over" comment from the referenced article? :P As you've noted, one certainly get LOTS more attention and European men just don't have the same hang-ups about interracial relationships that North American men do/may. However, I have found that it is sometimes exaggerated, the notion about how successful one's dating life will be in Europe. Not saying it's a myth that "black" women are desired by European men, but some people have an airy-fairy idea of what romantic life is like in Europe and others make it seem like there's some kind of "fever". If you want to see "fever", check out Canadian men and their reaction to Asian women. :D

Re: OkCupid Claims Racism Is Alive And Well!

Bluewisetooth — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 19:22:02 -0000

And u talk about interracial marriage with whites? FUCK NO

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Mikko Kemppe — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:28:33 -0000

So are you trying to say all white men are racist and don't want to marry her because she has black children or because she has been with a black man? Or what exactly is your point?

Re: Black Women Seeking White Men – Are They?

Guest — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 16:40:09 -0000

When a white woman marries black and has black kids, and they divorce,
I don't know of any white man will take her any farther than her bedroom.
Once you go black there is no coming back.
Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Re: White Men Dating Black Women

Msrdavis79 — Sun, 29 Aug 2010 01:27:16 -0000

Not True you make me sick, because of your ignorance. I have dated nothing but white men my whole life and do not have "white features" not everyone thinks the way you do, thank god. If you don't like black women, then why did you come to this site? There are several things about white men that a lot of black women don't like. Thin lips are a turn off for a lot of black women. Flat asses are a turn off as well. Very pale skin, Also the nasally voice. I can make as many ignorant and hurtful assumptions as you, but the good think is not all men think like you. Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder. Who are you to say what "pretty" features are. Why not post a picture of yourself, so we can see how good-looking you are.

Re: White Men Dating Black Women

Not true — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 18:59:30 -0000

the problem is not the skin,i love black or dark skin,but when most of the women who have black or dark brown skin have apish features then its out of question why most of us,go for white girls.Sorry to say it,but its not about insecurity or fears.Yes many of us fear to be labelled as racist for not liking a black girl,but as far i know from my white friends,its the facial features that they find disgusting in "black" women.Personally i wouldnt date a girl with big/wide forehead,a big/wide nose with big nostrils,flat,curved and wide skulls,huge lips and eyes ten times bigger than mine.No matter if the girl with that features is pale as snow,brown,yellow or black.If you a woman is fat its up to her to lose it,as for the hair thing its not bad to has curly hair,except if they look like Bob Marleys in their natural.If you notice it most white men who date or married to black girls are usually the one that are considered ugly or average to white women.From my personal experience ive seen many non white men dating white girls or even marrying them.Especially here in Europe you will find thousands non white men(Arab,black,south asian,west asian,Moor,mixed) with white women,especially the blonde ones,but you will rarely see the opposite.Maybe its the religion,but its also the fact that girls with flat,wide and generally big noses,girls with hairiness,round,flat or curved faces,unibrows and large eyes doesnt seem to attract the white man.Its sad for most black or dark brown women but thats how it is.Its about preferences.If i see a black girl with small/thin and cute nose,symmetrical,small and square head,medium eyes,and average or small lips,then why not consider her as pretty.There is no such a thing as chocolate white girls or white features.Its just one of the many excuses from a specific range of women,who happen to be mostly black/dark brown and want to seclude the features that a black person its acceptable to have in specific norms.The fact that black women with square heads,vertical and small foreheads,small noses and average or small lips tend to have more black partners,should also let us question the "white features" excuse.Not to mention the pale white girls with big foreheads noses,nostrils and lips who look like monkeys and considered less desirable by white men(its worth mentioning that most black/brown girls who are viewed to have small and straight noses like Leona Lewis actually they dont,its just the illusion of it when most others have large noses and one with smaller but still big is considered to have small nose) .Its mostly happening that thing in America because in the rest of the non white world they have serious gender imbalance problems,they are alienated to their own cultures through tribalism,tribal wars or religion.Also have in mind that white women are the minority in female population,and many non white men neither have seen a white woman nor they would be able to marry one,due to the small numbers of the white women and the increasing of the non white men.As for the ignorance thing,what do you imply?Do you want to brainwash white men,to love black women?Let the free market of ongoing preferences and selection do its duty.Its people who shape the media standards and not the opposite,and for the record white men are not afraid to admit they prefer black women,especially in Europe.Its not medieval times.In Europe you will find the most the secular countries in the world,and still its extremely rare to find a white European with black woman,despite the fact that white European has any opportunity to find the girl he wants.Why most white Europeans prefer to marry poor white European girls from Eastern Europe,and many of them they travel to East Europe for it.If it was for black girls,they would travel to poor black countries in central or south Africa to find their beloved future wife.Not to mention it would be million times easier the second option from a financial perspective.Most black women can keep dreaming, the ones they have pretty features and prefer white men are already engaged to one.